Thanks for your comments on the road-legality issue.  Mine has the speed limiter and the 5.38 gears for 2020, so I haven't been up past 55.  At 55 it felt stable, and I didn't think it would be a problem on a highway at 60-65.  I definitely would not want to take it past 65, but is that speed a problem? It feels really solid.  
I really hear what you guys are saying about "just appreciate it for what it is", but I don't want to let my kids or wife drive around in something that is susceptible to getting pulled over based on a technicality.  
Good tip on putting a tow bar inside my wife's car, or at least having a current AAA membership that can tow me back home (that might be a better option 

).